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After 13 years in the city, I have lots of tips. Check out my guide on how to make friends in NYC. How to Make Friends in NYC: 10 Ways to Meet New People Fast.



When I moved to New York from Pennsylvania at 18, I didn’t know a single soul. I went through a lot of temporary friendships and even a phase where I felt like I had no friends during my first year in the city. The truth is, I’ve always felt awkward making new friends. It’s rare for me to meet a person and connect with them right away. For a long time being social was something I had to try at—I was always the shy, quiet kid growing up. But over the last decade, I’ve been fortunate to make some of my very best friends in the city. Below are some general tips that helped me build my friend base in New York City. As long as you’re prepared to be a little vulnerable and take on a positive attitude, I’m confident they’ll help you out, too. 1. Use Social Media and Apps. Social media is a magnificent tool for connecting with people. And not just digitally. There are a lot of different apps these days that focus on finding friendships—I’ve made more than one friend via Instagram and Facebook Groups that have turned into real-life friendships. You should also check out some of these popular apps are specifically for making friends: Skout. Skout is an app that uses GPS to put you in touch with people nearby. You can chat with people, send virtual gifts, and share photos. Meetup. Anybody who’s a member can set up a Meetup event. From there, other members can join. Activities range from putting together sports teams, to book clubs and happy hours. Meetme. Meetme is a social network with a live chat. Members can also go live and create a live video that other members can tune into (think IG live). Bumble BFF. Bumble isn’t just for dating—the Bumble BFF version matches you with other people looking to find their new best friend. 2. Meet New Friends By Going Out Alone. Don’t be shy about going out to have experiences on your own. Take that wine tasting or cooking class that you’ve been debating. Eat alone at the bar of that restaurant you’ve been dying to try. Wander around a museum or see a show. I used to work in a bar and would see people night after night come in alone to enjoy a drink or dinner at the bar. By the end of the evening, most of those people had become friendly with the people around them. There’s a marvelous chance you’ll meet someone else who’s alone or maybe even start chatting up an entire group of possible new friends. People who do things alone give off a confident vibe—and who doesn’t want to be friends with a confident person? Pro-Tip: Make friends with bartenders, they’ll introduce you to other regulars. It’s the perfect way to build a little community at your favorite neighborhood spot. Further Reading. Are you thinking of moving to New York? With tons of insider tips from a local, this is the only guide you’ll need to plan a successful move to the “Big Apple”. 3. Neighbors, Co-workers, and Roommates Make Great Friends. Neighbors. I know that sounds crazy in a city as big as New York, but it’s worked for me. She started a conversation in the hallway which led to us eventually hanging out. We’re still friends almost 10 years later. Co-workers. If you work in an office, try hanging out with some of your co-workers. One of my best friends to this day is someone that I met at an old job. Roommates. Taking a roommate doesn’t have to just be a financial decision—it’s also a brilliant way to end up with a new friend (or even a friend group). Yes, it takes two to tango—but the key here is to make an effort. Schedule a wine and cheese night or happy hour to hang out and get to know each other better. It’s way less awkward living with a friend compared to a distant roommate. Further Reading. Want to have a truly original New York holiday? Embrace this guide to the best non-touristy things to do in NYC and you’ll fit right in with the locals. 4. Make Friends With Common Hobbies. When you meet someone in the same class or show, you already have an easy topic to start a conversation. You know that you have a common interest. I’ll be the first to admit this takes some courage on your end to start conversations. I know it can be hard putting yourself out there, but what’s the worst that could happen if you start a conversation? I’ve made brilliant friends over the years from weekly ballet classes, acting classes, and even through volunteering. Take a deep breath and try to strike up a conversation the next time you spot a potential friend. 5. Follow Up on New Connections. You had a great time chatting with that unknown person at a party or after class, so you both exchange contact info. That’s only half the battle. Attempt to text or message first. Ask them if they want to do something fun. Making wonderful friendships is like dating. You need to see them with some consistency to build an excellent relationship.